If you’re an Asian male and you are having dating problems, then this article was tailor-made specifically for you. As an Asian male, I’ve also faced the same problems early on in my dating career, but I’ve found a way to change. This article will outline the problems and a few suggestions on how to fix your problems.
The problem isn’t that Asian men can’t find girls. A great number of Asian men get married or find a girlfriend. The real problem is that Asian men are just settling. As a child living in a predominantly white area, I had always wanted to be with white girls. Many of you are probably thinking the same thing. You know you want a hot blonde or a gorgeous brunette, heck, maybe you have a thing for Asian girls, but you want a really hot one. However, you’re stuck dating one of the blind dates that your mom set you on or that your friend set you on. The problem here is your limiting belief.
You don’t believe that you could date interracially or you believe that all the hot Asian girls are taken by the buff white men or you believe that you must be super-rich or handsome to attract beautiful women. Believe me that it doesn’t matter what ethnicity you are, anyone can attract anyone. The problem is too many people are buying into the stereotype that the American media has portrayed for Asian men (see this website: http://www.livingasian.com/2007/07/asian-men-and-the-media/). Do girls really prefer other ethnicities over Asians? Quite the opposite. Honestly, I was pretty surprised when I found out how many girls (Asian and non-Asian) actually PREFERRED Asian men. Just take a look at the following forum thread: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=121283. These aren’t just ordinary women talking, these are EXOTIC DANCERS.
True, the amount of Asian men/Non-Asian woman couples are few and far between. However, I blame this on the traditional family beliefs that Asian men still hold and the fact that Asian women are still very desirable. But this trend is rapidly changing and we are seeing some more Asian men with women of other ethnicities.
But if you want to succeed with a beautiful woman, you must get rid of this limiting belief now.
Written by Editorial Staff