XeroXtancy's Guide to Sentimental Companionship

[XeroXtancy]

Boredom sometime takes the bests of some people. In an attempt to improve my ethnic writing skills, I provide you my personal and peers knowledge, philosophy and opinions on the subject of amorousness.

Ironic, is it not; able to provide a methodical guide upon love but yet I fail to grasp it in reality...

Feel free to criticize or contribute your own information.

XeroXtancy's Guide to Sentimental Companionship
Version: 1.0a
16 September, 2006

Foreword: The following document is based on the notion of popular beliefs of males and is opinionated by the perspectives of the author. Therefore, the reader should take notice and ample consideration to the deviating procedures. The author does not guarantee of his philosophies accuracy to any attainments.

° Parte Un: Basic Knowledge and Concepts °
• To begin, the companion that you desire should be of personal interest. In other words, not the girl you think looks sexy; so you can acquire recognition. Remember that physical characteristics are only temporarily and lust will not perceive to give you any concernment from the opposite sex.
• One must acquire an adequate knowledge of the person of interest beforehand. A few topics that should first come to mind are: clothing choice, interests and disinterests, friends, ect. A simple observation you should give you these determinants.
• With the case of a random stranger, it is best to have basic concepts of her clothing choices in order to initiate a conversation.
• A well personality is not required, but will aide into play. Re-evaluate your current attitude and characteristic traits. Make sure that it is not offensive, rude or unsatisfying towards the targeted companion. Does she like the guy with confidence or the guy with desperation? Will she prefer those with well-manners or the immature person?
• One simple concept you must always imply is... be yourself. Eventually, they can see through you and determine if you are what you say.

° Parte Duex: Confidence vs. Egotistical °
"To value his own good opinion, a child has to feel that he is a worthwhile person. He has to have confidence in himself as an individual." - Sidonie Gruenberg
Confidence - the one word that all so many are concerned with. But what is it really? And how must it differentiate from the negative egotistical trait?

con·fi·dence (knf-dns)
n.
Definition: A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.
Example: I have confidence in my ability to solve this difficult confrontation.

Now, in comparison to the definition of egotistic: given to talking about oneself; vain; boastful; opinionated.

These definitions will hopefully provide clarity between the two commonly misinterpret words. Confidence is good. Being egotistical is bad. There is a line of judgment of action between the two. When you have confidence, you are assured and proud of your inner characteristics. You do not need to boast or even talk about those characteristics. With confidence, nervousness should not be even within your vocabulary. It will support you to confront with the task you seek to accomplish; in our case seeking companionship and separation of an alpha male from your atypical chump.

With that in mind, how does one acquire such beneficial attribute?
• Acknowledge yourself. List or acquire a foreknowledge of your positive internal features and characteristics. Compare it with others. External appearance, otherwise looks, are of heredity. Sorry to say it but few have it, many do not. Therefore, do not fret about it.
• Be judgmental and disdainful of others. Indeed, it is an ill-mannered thing to do, but it will provide you with a confidence boost. The downside to this is that you may develop an arrogant type of personality. But that is acceptable in my terms, as long as you do not proceed to take scornful actions of others; in other terms, look down on others, but do not express it externally.
• Learn from your mistakes. So you've gotten rejected? Now you know what you have done wrong and have a chance for correction upon the future.

° Parte Trois: The Approach °
With confidence as your backing attribute, the approach is a rather simple task. Many try to come up with so-called 'romanticize advancement' ideas. Example of the most humorous, walking in the hallways at school and bumping into a girl to drop her books. In my opinion, these ideas are of exaggeration and just an attempt to gain attention; deficient of gainning any noticeability with the one you seek. Why? A bit difficult to explain; it depicts you to be more focused on devising a way to talk to the person then to actually have any interest in her in the first place. Also, in more simple terms, it is cheesy.

Simple is best. And what is simple? Just walking up to the one you'd been admiring. No need for fancy gifts, dramatization or anything related to so. Now, we take the idea into more specific and logical analysis:

Conversation Initiation > Witty Gesture or Compliment > Innoventive Topic Discussion > Conversation Continuation

TO BE CONTINUE...

[Squeek]

wow hmmm, interesting guide man. You have a degree in this stuff or what

[TwilightGirl]

haha this is an interesting post.

[Anarchist]

You should continue this guide.

[XeroXtancy]

Anarchist Wrote:You should continue this guide.

Will continue contribution efforts when I have free time. Compositioning is one of my major hobby now due to a need of improvement in my writing.

[suat074]

THANKS THANKS

[Wolf Man]

hm. that looks pretty helpful.

One must acquire an adequate knowledge of the person of interest beforehand. A few topics that should first come to mind are: clothing choice, interests and disinterests, friends, ect. A simple observation you should give you these determinants.

that is so true.

[MaStErHiEn]

man this got me thinking lol this is interesting thanks for this guide all true

[lego2iori]

keep up the good work and thanks for sharing with us.

[carmen]

Hey the day you wrote that up was my birthday ^_^/ Hehe.

Pretty cool guide there. Can't wait to see a next installment!