I admit it, I'm a coward when it comes to love. I'm always afraid that if a guy is too much older than me, he'll become abusive and controlling. On the other hand, if a guy is too much younger, I might end up smothering him with motherly intentions.

I usually go for those who are about the same age as me; usually older, simply because they tend to be more mature. It has something to do with the delayed puberty sequence, or so I've heard. From my experiences, people my age tend to be better listeners and more in tune with the idea of "coupleness".

So how about you guys? Do you have a preference for people older, younger, or the same age as you? Leave a comment below!

i dont have any preference,, whether he is older, younger, or at the same age as me,,
cause, i don't think age is very important in a relationship,, there are many other factors we must consider beside his age. i think his personality is more important factor than his age.

(10-26-2009 11:10 PM)rierie Wrote:  i dont have any preference,, whether he is older, younger, or at the same age as me,,
cause, i don't think age is very important in a relationship,, there are many other factors we must consider beside his age. i think his personality is more important factor than his age.

Oh wow!! I applaud your courage! Sometimes I feel like their personality is connected to their age, which is why I so rarely go with those younger than me, but rierie I think you are an amazing person. I know very few people who would be willing to admit that age shouldn't be the only factor in choosing our significant other.