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Inappropriate pictures?

Tue, 10 Nov 2009 03:50:11 -0600

Hi my friends!

I am a teacher's assistant in some classes at my local school. Today, one of them drew a very graphic image of oral sex on his whiteboard and began taking pictures of the drawing with his phone during class.

As is popular in possibly many schools around the world, cell phone usage is prohibited during school hours while the teacher personally has requested students not to draw on the whiteboard.

I am wondering what the best way to handle this is for in the future. Since it was graphic, I'm a bit at a loss. Usually students just scribble out weird doodles that are not harmful in any way. This time around, I merely asked him to erase the board before the teacher saw his picture. If I see a similar thing happen again, how should I react?

Thanks for taking the time to read/respond:]

What do u do when someone tease u that u don't have BF/GF??

Sat, 31 Oct 2009 02:26:33 -0500

when someone says so,i casually say:
1.I'm a little younger so i don't need to have BF right now
2.I'm concentrating on my studies.
3.My parents will kill me............and so on yaaaaarrrrrr........

The Age Debate

Sun, 25 Oct 2009 04:17:36 -0500

I admit it, I'm a coward when it comes to love. I'm always afraid that if a guy is too much older than me, he'll become abusive and controlling. On the other hand, if a guy is too much younger, I might end up smothering him with motherly intentions.

I usually go for those who are about the same age as me; usually older, simply because they tend to be more mature. It has something to do with the delayed puberty sequence, or so I've heard. From my experiences, people my age tend to be better listeners and more in tune with the idea of "coupleness".

So how about you guys? Do you have a preference for people older, younger, or the same age as you? Leave a comment below!

I love my girlfriend, but I want to be single

Sat, 24 Oct 2009 14:46:12 -0500

I don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend, but I don't like the restrictions that are being placed upon me by being in a relationship. I consider myself to be someone who has morals, but I am attracted to other girls and I like partying and hanging out with my guy friends. I feel like I'm trapped, but I still really love my girl, and I am afraid if I did break up I would regret it severely.

What do you think I should do?

Girls, have you knowingly dated a player?

Sun, 11 Oct 2009 15:20:51 -0500

Girls, have you knowingly dated a guy who you heard was a player? Why'd you do it?

In a relationship but I also feel attraction to sum1 else?

Mon, 05 Oct 2009 02:27:01 -0500

I've been in a 3 month relationship but now I've started feeling attraction towards this other girl that I've just met. I feel like I've already cheated on my girlfriend by lusting after this other girl, but I still love my gf and I know she loves me so what should I do about this situation? I would never cheat for real, but a part of me wants this other girl a lot.

Do you like buff guys?

Sun, 02 Aug 2009 21:07:27 -0500

This is a question for the girls. Do you like your men buff and ripped?

Love: Compatibility or Feeling?

Tue, 14 Jul 2009 07:58:49 -0500

Hi there...

I'm having a headache now.... Need advice from you guys and gals out there....

The story is like this... I had been knowing this girl, W, for a few years but not very close until recently (after I broke off with my gf of 4 years).
W is a happy go lucky girl and frankly speaking, she makes me so happy everytime we go out together...although she is not beautiful, she seems to have her own charm that make you irresistable... however, my feeling towards her was not that type of having crush or anything, or simply say, I dont have that kind of feeling for her... On the other hand, I recently met a girl, E, who makes me have the heart beat feeling...however, she is quite cool and i dont even have much chance to know her better (well, she decline my offer to take her for lunch/drinks, TWICE..)....

W actually have a bf but she does hint (i think) that she was hoping for the right man to come by (she is not very happy with her current bf)... Frankly speaking, I really want to tell her that maybe we can have a start but I have 3 main concern... first I do not know if I should really go for W as I really dont have the heartbeat feeling for her (nut somehow, I felt the compatibility that we have)...second, I worried i would loose such a good friend if it does not turn out good... Third, I was really hoping for this girl E, I worried that i will regret this forever if i dint really tried hard enough for E.... What should I do?

Help

Mon, 29 Jun 2009 01:16:58 -0500

I really don't know who to talk to this about and I guess this is the only place I can. Last night I hooked up with a guy for the first time outside of a relationship and did a few things. I just need to talk with someone if they don't mind through messaging because it would be too embarrassing to talk on the forum. I'm just feeling terrible about myself right now and need to know if what I did was wrong. My heart was recently broken and since then I did a few stupid things and I think this is another one.

If you have time to spare just say yes and I'll message you. If I'm doing something wrong by writing this here, please don't get upset, I can't handle anyone else upset with me.

Would you date a younger guy in college?

Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:08:52 -0500

This is a question for the ladies. Let's say you're a junior or senior in college, would you date a freshman or sophomore?

Do you mind your girl has fake boobs?

Mon, 08 Jun 2009 22:17:04 -0500

Well do you guys mind?

Would you care if your girlfriend got fake boobs? Would you encourage it? Would you discourage it?

Accidentally letting slip your dislike

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 00:45:12 -0500

This situation happens in tv/film every now and then and i was wondering if this has every happened to anyone in real life?

A friend comes up to you and asks you about your bf/gf and you reply they're not my bf/gf anymore. Then your friend starts saying all this stuff that they didn't like about your bf/gf or simply 'oh i never liked him/her'. and then you let them know that they're not your bf/gf anymore because they are now you fiance/husband/wife. XD

Just wondering if this actually happens in real life

Debate, how come Asian girls date outside of their race more?

Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:11:27 -0500

Recently this issue has popped in my head so I thought i'd address it here.
So there's a common anxiety amongst the Asian community, and that is that Asian girls date outside of their race a lot and Asian men do not. What do you think are some of the reasons for this?

I think there are a few reasons for this

1) Men have to do the approaching and the first move
- The Asian girls have it easy! They don't need to do anything but be cute and they get approached by white men. Now Asian guys on the other hand have to go out there and make a move on a white girl. This is a lot harder than getting approached. If Asian guys were simply approached by tons of white women, then the scales would definitely be more balanced.

2) Asian men prefer Asian girls
Maybe its their heritage but a lot of Asian guys actually just prefer Asian girls to white girls. Therefore instead of approaching white girls they will primarily go for Asian girls. Nothing wrong with that at all.

And here's a video I thought was interesting

How did you court your bf/gf?

Mon, 01 Jun 2009 03:56:24 -0500

Anyone have any stories on how you courted your girlfriend or how your boyfriend courted you? I need some ideas for getting the girl of my dreams =) Don't have a gf yet.

Will you stay a virgin till marriage?

Sun, 31 May 2009 22:48:18 -0500

Do you believe in this at all? Any christians out there who will still follow this?

How to get over your break up

Sun, 31 May 2009 22:35:07 -0500

So I just got broken up with by my boyfriend and I am really sad right now. I don't really know how to cope, but hanging out with my friends is helping a little bit. Anyone have any tips for getting over someone?

Expanding your social network

Sun, 10 May 2009 20:15:07 -0500

Just Curious, for someone who does not have a diverse social network of friends, is it right or wrong to use your girlfriend to help expand your social network and meet new people? I do not mean by expanding your social network by hopefully meeting a new girl that is a friend/acquaintance of your girlfriend and you liking her better making you want to get with her, not like that, if it happens then whatever you decide is up to you. I am not trying to come across as a user here, i just want your honest opinion on this matter, coming from someone who does not go out and meet new people.

Hypo-hypocrites :P

Fri, 10 Apr 2009 02:21:22 -0500

Was reading a random teen mag (i was super bored ok?!) lol and all these girls complain about how the "hot" guys don't care about personalities, just looks and shouldn't care about looks.

like no probs there ofcourse, i wish that 2!

but what about the guys? i don't think girls take their own advice! i don't c "hot" girls going out with a guy with a good personality!

yes and ofcourse i guess that looks matter some what (in both perspectives). but what if he had a stupid personality?! i was on youtube listening to Albert Posis (such a good singer!) and he looks like arthur (the cartoon character lol) but asian and older probs 18? and he's voice was just so cute and so were his songs, i wouldn't mind dating sum1 who looked like him but could sing. geez the world these days lol.

What do you look for in a man or woman?

Fri, 27 Mar 2009 01:55:12 -0500

For me, he must must be able to make me laugh! major +++, makes smart choices, good hygiene, cooks, intelligent, and decent looking

P.S Don't list too much because there isn't Mr. or Miss perfect in this world. List only the thing that matter the most to you.

Having a friends with benefits?

Mon, 09 Mar 2009 20:30:46 -0500

Is having a friends with benefits something that you would consider doing or have done in the past? What do you think about it? What ended up happening?

As for me, this has never happened before so I'm very curious.