Feeling like a bad person

[JohnRonald]

I have been feeling like a bad person as of late. It is just a feeling I can't shake sometimes. The odd thing is, life is going great for me. My band is close to getting signed, I am doing well in school, I am broke, but that happens to everyone. I think it is just lack of companionship. I have my best friends (the guys in the band) but no feminen companionship. I don't have time for it, but I can't help but feel lonely at times. Any advice?

[Carelli]

First of all, feeling lonely does not make you a bad person. Lonliness is a very real emotion, and at one time or another everyone feels lonely. Your band it doing great and you want to share that feeling with someone other than your bandmates. I understand. You can't force love and you can't go looking for it. Love just happens. When you least expect it, it happens. It may be at a gig, the store, or a gas station, but just don't rush it. Love is the most powerful emotion you will ever feel, and when it happens you will know. Just live for the moment. Enjoy your current success and let things fall where they may. Of course I'm not saying that all you have to do is sit back and do nothing. Love is proactive. Someone has to make the first move. All I'm saying is that you should be patient, wait untill you meet someone, and when you fall in love never let anything stand in your way.

Good luck.

[Pawnz0rz]

Get a girl/ Stop thinking about it.

[fallforGongYoo]

It's not bad at all. Think of other people who are less fortunate than you,also helping people makes you feel great.

[azzury]

Dear, you must strength ur soul to challenge again..not early give up..pray for God.

[indomitable_phoenix]

well,first of all I agree with Carelli and I guess somehow your emotions are miscalculated, you don't have to feel guilty for being a bad person if all your feeling is lonliness or need of companionship, maybe you have another reason that makes you feel like a bad person? about the loneliness issue, I want to make sure that you understand the point that you don't have to have a girl to be whole and you are well enough capable of surviving on your own, also it is a wonderful thing to have once you do and it makes your life (sorry for the mushy expression) all butterflies and roses. I don't know the process exactly , whether it just happens or you have to look for it,so whichever works for you, but the most important thing is for it not to be a game which would waste your time and that is something you say you are short in, not to mention playing with others emotions isn't exactly a good deed even if they're playin too. I believe you'll meet your soulmate somewhere along your way so don't be upset or lonely just cuz it hasn't happened yet. maybe you can try of cutting your self some slack, take a break and go around town, you can call it "me time" and just do what you feel like, it might help in relieving your stress, go to parties where you dance in not playing your music (that won't count ) try hooking up and hopefully it all goes well . good luck! [note: your actions are your responsibility so please don't mess up and blame it on me ]

[VIERAN]

being feeling alone happens all the time but that makes you not a bad person, just enjoy life to the fullest, be happy!

[FahlynD]

I can kind of relate to your feelings here. I sometimes feel that way as life throws us bumpy roads. Sounds like you have a lot of good positive things in your life. Hang on to them dearly. All but one of my best friends have died from various causes; drugs, suicide, car accidents and even murder. My girlfriend is in california and I am in Illinois. Bummer. Yet there are those out there who actually care for other human beings. One thing we all must do no matter what part of the world we live in and that is to give ourselves a little space and breathing room. We as humans tend to wrap ourselves to tight in the things we do and in that we loose touch with some of the more important things like our own sanity. You sound like a pretty cool person. Hang in there; tomorrow is a whole new day. P.S. Good luck with the band. I play a little guitar and trombone myself.

[kisaoo]

i don't think u're a bad person, u are just feeling lonely, and it just seems that ur life is not as funny as u would like it to be : for example the fact that u've precised u don't have feminin friends means that it annoys u to be always with guys..
one and only one advice : u must talk with girls try to get along with them to understand bla bla bla and u'll see

[Annodz]

If you feel lonely, i would suggest that you go to church, sing a song for the Lord, praise Him with all of your heart, without any hesitation and reservation, talk to Him, ask His guidance and blessings. After an hour of talking and singing praise songs for Him you will feel a happiness that no one could ever give to you by someone else.