How to give up on someone you like?

[YuKai]

I like this girl, but it seems to me she'll never return the same feelings. Infact this is the scenario, we have a CIS class together. And my friend she likes him, I knew that so I kept my feelings inside. But suddenly my old friend (I dunno if I can even consider her as one anymore), blurted out that I liked her. Not wanting to be a liar, and then admitting for me liking her made the stupid mistake ever. I said yes. Of course seeing as how she liked my friend, she never believed or felt anything for me. So not wanting to pursue it anymore, how can I move on? I still like her alot, and she has moved on after I told her, she rejected me. And my friend knowing my utmost feelings for her, did the same in return. Though I wanted to comfort it seemed like everything I try, it just hurts her.

And talking on the phone from eleven pm to five thirty eight in the morning after the whole fiasco, didn't help either. I want to try to move on, because she has done the same over my friend. But what can I do? The problem is I keep convincing myself there are so many fishes in the sea, and there are some girls that I am close with. But I just don't see myself with them, only her, which seems to make me feel all confused. What options do I have?

[fake_innocent]

I went through a break up with my boyfriend of a year and half, not too long ago. It was this past July (a month before my birthday). Isn't that a nice early birthday gift!? Well enough of me. X_X

Anyhow, about your situation the advice I can give from what I learn and done to "move on" is to not talk to him/her or even call for a long period of time. You should spend more time with close friends and families. Have fun with friend by going out, go watch a movie, go dine out for lunch/dinner, or talk on the phone.

Don't get me wrong, I still think about him from time to time. He pops into my head, I guess it just conscious telling me I'm not "really" over him, but this kept me from calling and being so clingy.

Healing takes time and a lot of effort to get something good in return.
Keep your head up and don't over think too much

Best of luck to you!

[Rondillo]

lilxjoanna is right. Unfortunately, you really can't do anything if you are trying to forget her. It's going to take a lot of time, until you find that you have moved on. These are naturally tough to deal with...

I can't say you should avoid her at all cost though. Just be a friend and smile. Don't break a good relationship because you admitted some things that made things uncomfortable. Try talking to her about your feelings. How you wished that everything was back to normal and hope that the two of you can just start over. Because IMO you're not only having trouble forgetting a girl you like but also a friend, and thats even harder to do.

[Tai Chi Robot]

Time. With time you'll meet alot more girls. And there will most probably be someone that make your head turn and stare in that direction. Its just the one girl. Theres no point of a crush/relationship thats one sided. But do stay friends with her.
These are simply unrequited feelings. Thats it.

[daniella276]

Its a sad story,well..
Its not wrong 4 u 2 try..then, u have been rejected...
It shows that u have a strong spirit!!!
Love is always there for u...
Try to find the right one..
Why do u wanna put ur hope on something that ull never get?
Trust me..
To get the true diamond, u have to find it among the glasses..
Dont just u have been hurt by a piece of glass, u stop to find the diamond..
GOOD LUCK!!

[RoShbob]

One sided love is the hardest to let go of because it involves letting go of the “image” of love you’ve created. Just like your feeling grow for that person they have to slowly wither to free you of the hold your infatuation has on you. You have to tell yourself that you are worthy to have love, not just give it but receive it. Most importantly realize one sided love is selfish and lonely, not a relationship. The same way you manifested those feelings of adoration you have to come to the realization it will never materialized. Let it go. Cry if you must, but it is better to grieve a relationship that will never be than carry a torch for something that doesn’t exist.

[fadhli]

believe what GOD prepare for your future... may be the better one

[xeng]

have faith.. anything is possible..

if you really love her.. you'll wait for the right time..

you'll wait for the time she would return you're feelings..

[Bclarijod44]

Well you could start to notice another person that always helps.....I don't suggest waiting for people to change etheir feelings because then you become obsessive and then you'll more then likely start to spiral downward into depression and in this case bipolar disorder so I would suggest to start paying attention to other girls.....

[VIERAN]

move on,she's not the one. there's someone better that's really for you and you have to wait for it. right now you can't really forget her but soon you will try to do something with your own that makes you busy the most it'll help you this alot.