Friend has relationship problems...need advice.
He basically asked me..."Am I being wronged?". Here...I'll post his question from yahoo answers.
"I was gone the entire summer and I just got back...
I learned about a friend she had who has had a crush on her. He didn't respect our relationship, claiming that since we're far apart, he can do what he wants..
Eventually, he respected our relationship and was now merely looking to be good friends with her since she is the "realest girl I've met". However, I don't trust this guy yet as he seems to be around her a lot more...so I've been becoming paranoid and jealous about it. I trust her and she loves me, but I hate the fact how she lets him...walk all over her. One time, she went out with a group of guys and girls, and he ended up paying for her movie ticket, dinner, and arcade. Mind you, we are 18, but aside from the arcade, I found everything else...couple like. I tried telling her to respect my feelings, but she insists I don't trust her and I'm paranoid and jealous...I just want her to just lay off a bit. They can still hangout, but she feels like I want them to stop. This has really been killing me...it really has..I feel so much pain from this since it's been going on forever. We got into an argument last night about who's right and who's right. I don't want her to stop seeing her friend, I just want her to stop being so....couply with him. I mean, she always goes out to jog three times a week for an hour and he comes along. I don't mind that, but it's just these other things that bother me.