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timlim · 06-28-2007, 10:12 PM

Well, is having a relationship while studying in college advisable? I mean, we're very busy with studies, and only a few people have steady relationships... so what would it be?

Agent001 · 06-28-2007, 11:48 PM

it depends on how you can juggle with studies, if you think u r able to cope with a relationship, then why not? if not, i believe studies should take precedence.

usa_margaret · 07-04-2007, 03:04 PM

uhmm i think dat having a relationship while ur studying is not bad..you should just always remember that you should treat him as your inspiration not a distraction..if that will be the case it is just fine..

vnbabe · 07-04-2007, 04:02 PM

.. it really depends on the relationship itself.. personally for me.. i'm a very carefree person but i have my limits.. my kind of relationship is the kind that we'd stick up for each other and wouldn't let a little argument come by us. a good and steady relationship. he will be like my support system for school.. if he can't handle that i have to go to school.. he can suck my dick and take the highway. .. if it is an on and off relationship.. mind as well be in the middle.. and just be friends? on and off relationships and school DO NOT work. and if you're the kind of gurl that gets jealous cause your boyfriend has been flirting .. vise versa.. then.. school won't work cause all you will think about is ... what the fuck did they do blahb la hblah.. soo it depends on the relationship itself. Smile

Da Slasher · 07-05-2007, 12:31 AM

In my view I thing the relationship is important to everybodies . To find someone how sharewith you the life

noha_pepermint · 12-10-2007, 06:24 AM

i yhink that u need relationship during studying
may love encourage u ... don't make u busy

Kahn · 12-10-2007, 07:08 AM

Personally, I've been all my school and college life without a relationship and, although I'm sigma upsilon and all that stuff, I just feel that there's something missing in my life. You know, time always goes forward and sometimes you'll look back and hope you something could be different. BUT, if you feel like you can't handle having a relationship and studying, then college is priority. And when I say handle, is handling it properly Big Grin

. In this competitive world, being good is just not enough

VIERAN · 12-12-2007, 09:25 PM

i wouls say its not bad at all as long as you know your limitations and you can balance it both and its better if you take it as inspiration that would be better.

kahlen14 · 12-16-2007, 03:24 AM

for me, having a relationship during your college days isn' bad.. i'm a sophomore right now and i have a boyfriend whom i've been with for more than 3 years now..

but having a boyfriend while studying requires a lot of balancing or time management between studies & ur partner.. luckily, i haven't had any problems regarding time... but with fights, i've had a lot.. haha.. well, a realationship can't be called a relationship if there are no fights.. and fighting gives spice to a relationship... Smile

hope i was able to help.. Big Grin

cloudxvii · 12-21-2007, 11:47 AM

I say it really depends on the person. If the person is free a lot of the times and wants to hang with you a lot, distracting you from your studies, I personally think it's a bad thing - HOWEVER it shouldn't be ended.

If you're on the other side of this, where your person is always busy, understand that. Don't distract her (in my case) from her own studies.

It's always manageable lol