i know this is really bad of me

[hotshot_honey]

Is this new guy you like a decent guy? Will he care for you the way your boyfriend does? If yes, then go with him because you obviously like him mor ethan your boyfriend and it's not fair on your boyfriend if you don't really love him but are still with him.

At first, he may feel hurt with you breaking up with him but in the long run you'd have done the right thing if you don't relaly love him. You deserve to be with someone you really love and so does he. Don't stay with him because you feel obliged to as that won't make a successful relationship.

xxx

[FahlynD]

To have feelings for someone is normal and the same for liking more than one person at a time is normal. Where we go wrong is when we have a serious personal relationship with more than one person at a time. If you are with person A, but you want to be with person B; break it off with person A first [salvaging the friendship if at all possible], then see where it goes with person B. It sounds like you may have it made with person A. Why not just be friends with B and build on your relationship with A. That's as close to having your cake and eating it too as you can get. Any way it goes you can probubly expect a little drama before it's over.

[andyly05]

lol well it happened to me to however it is the opposite the girl i liked had a bf and i talked to her and stuff and until almost i finished the year of high school she liked me but i refused her, because sometimes its not the like that you think it is its how much you think about him sometimes a sign (dreaming/day dreaming) can fully tell how much you like a person or not. your current boyfriend has developed that love with you. sometimes you should forget him.

ps. if you have no more feelings with your current bf its best to break up as soon as possible because once relationships lasts for ages it tends to hurt them more.