Dating difference between the States and China
One of my friends has some solid experience with Chinese women. He is 35 years old and started attracting women in the states about 3-4 years before making his first trip to China. He uses the same strategy over and over again in the states because it works:
1. Make the women comfortable and trust you.
(This is easy if you're a nice guy, but you'll have to take it to the next
level if you want to get anywhere.)
2. Build their feelings of respect and admiration for you with stories.
(if a women can not respect or admire you, she wouldn't sleep with you)
3. Get them used to being in close proximity to you, and get
them used to being touchy feely with you.
4. Build up feelings of excitement and arousal, and link them all to YOU.
During the time with them, he usually throws in a few hints without sounding as if it means much to him so that they can come to the same conclusion themselves that: ( I'm desireable to women. I'm in good physical shape. I'm exciting sexually, etc... ). Women get turned off very fast when they think you're bragging, so he does it in a way where it does not look like that at all, and it is only by subtle implication because they filled in the blanks themselves to come to that conclusion based on how he acts and carry himself when he is with them.
His first trip to China was a big eye opener. He has been so fined tuned with getting around the defences of women in the states, that he found it was just way too easy in ShenZhen, China to score with beautiful women. He didn't have to try very hard, because women in China didn't seem to have the problems that women in the states had: suspicion that every guy is just trying to get into their pants, and that they had to be difficult to avoid looking easy. He of course totally loved this difference, because it was very little work, with lots of play.
The mention of his penis was really his way of saying that I am not afraid to tell you my penis size in order to dispell the myth that asian's have tiny penis. It's not a big penis, but he is happy with penis either way, and he doesn't feel a need to change it.
The truth is, you don't need a huge penis to be very good in bed. You just need to know how to use it the right way.