In a relationship but I also feel attraction to sum1 else?

[takeshi]

I've been in a 3 month relationship but now I've started feeling attraction towards this other girl that I've just met. I feel like I've already cheated on my girlfriend by lusting after this other girl, but I still love my gf and I know she loves me so what should I do about this situation? I would never cheat for real, but a part of me wants this other girl a lot.

[fake_innocent]

Well the question you should be asking yourself is, are you ready to commit to a relationship? Because you guys barely started to a date and you have feeling for another girl pretty much shows, you're still exploring and that you're possibly not ready to commit to a relationship.

In addition, it isn't fair for your girlfriend that you're thinking about her and another girl.

[lmfx]

this is something that happens very commonly. I would say you should weather the storm and deal with the feelings for the other girl. Soon they will die down. Do not break up with your gf, you will regret it later.

[takeshi]

(10-12-2009 06:20 AM)lmFX Wrote:  this is something that happens very commonly. I would say you should weather the storm and deal with the feelings for the other girl. Soon they will die down. Do not break up with your gf, you will regret it later.

I like your suggestion. Thanks!

[1988Ace]

The best thing to do in your current situation is to tell your current GF how you really feel so two can break it off ahead of time otherwise you'll either end up cheating or at least be tempted to and just remember a person can only take so much before looking for an alternative way out

[AcesGirl]

(12-30-2009 03:20 AM)1988Ace Wrote:  The best thing to do in your current situation is to tell your current GF how you really feel so two can break it off ahead of time otherwise you'll either end up cheating or at least be tempted to and just remember a person can only take so much before looking for an alternative way out

That's true and is also the reason a people flip out in life(just remember a person can only take so much before looking for an alternative way out).Things just don't happen by themselves their is a root cause for everything and people tend to "overlook" them.Just tell her how you feel since 1)You can't have both and 2)Honesty is always the best thing in an relationship