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RE: Going to Japan for the first time
Well one thing I would suggest, is arrive with gifts from the country you reside in. It's a gesture of kindness, as in they are sharing their home and hospitality with you, so you, by giving gifts of your home country, are in a sense sharing your home and hospitality with them as well. Make sure when your take your shoes off, take the extra few seconds to make sure that they are turned around so that the toe faces the door. Use Japanese as much as you possibly can, even if it only small phrases here and there, it can go a long way to showing appreciation. Let them know often, of your liking for things. Even if it is just a "This is lovely, thank you." It can go a long way to showing respect. I would also research proper bowing etiquette, and eating and drinking etiquette, as well as chopstick etiquette. I would also start now, even if it is not yet 100% concrete that you are going to go, to write letters to the family, it's a respectable way of familiarizing them with you more.
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