(08-19-2009 06:13 PM)blacknoraxe Wrote:  In this situation, you should keep yourself close to her, if she need somebody to listen, listen but don't say anything unless she ask for advise, encourage her. Ask help from her, to distract her, do not need to tell her she needed but show her she's needed.

I would have to agree with most everyone here, but I think blacknoraxe said it best.
Acouple of years ago my friend encountered a similar situation. We just supported her through this hard time and tried to take her out and have fun. We also tried not to mention that meanie's name.