I think one of the problems today, is that we treat sex as an activity that you have to be good at so that the people, who you have sex with, would love you! That's why many people are drawn to have sex early to gain that experience... However that's not how it's supposed to be! It should be when you fall in love and want to share babies with each other! Of course it should be pleasurable, but shouldn't the most pleasure be that you're doing it with the one you love and the hopes of having children?..... and not the few minutes you give your wife/husband with "experience".

i don't agree to it. i believe we should wait until we're married. i'm not saying this because i'm Christian but because i truly believe that girls should have more respect for themselves then to give themselves away freely.

i believe that we should all wait till we get married before having sex with anyone. christian or not, do you think that for that moment of pleasure, is going to be just that moment? trust me, i've known friends that wished that they would just keep it in their pants. they had sex with this girl/guy,and one day, a few months later finding out, i'm going to parent a child! before doing it, they should really think about, am i able to support a family if a child really pop out of nowhere. thats what i think. personal opinion=D

i won't judge anyone that did it before marriage badly but i i personally won't do it. im someone who would want to wait until marriage. its not a religious thing for me its just a personal choice that i made. the safest way around sex is basically abstinence.

I think i'll wait till i get married. but it doesnt matter who i marry as long as i love that person!

I don't see any harm in it . If you are in love and have developed relationships you can have sex with your beloved one before marriage .

Getting involve to pre-marital sex is something that a person should think think hard.

In my personal opinion having "done" that is way too far from Gods teaching.No matter what culture or religion you are in,remind yourself that theres someone in this world might be reserving him/herself for you.

You should do the same.

Well, personally, I think it is fine as long as you are not a slut about it. If you truely care about the person, it is perfectly fine, I honestly think that if you are serious about the relationship, there is no harm. If you view it from a Christian stand point, it is wrong, but it is my personal belief that the Church has warped Christianity into something it didn't start out as. It is all a matter of do you care about the person or not.

Peoples values are peoples values. I don't think in this day and age it is the best thing to wait. Years and years ago it was the right thing to do, I wish it still was that way. Ok let me just tell my example and you learn from it. I was married and had 2 kids, My ex-wife and I grew apart and our marriage was horrible but I stuck with it because divorce is wrong IMO. I eventually tried to change myself putting in 150% to show her I wanted to make things better. I found out after that she had been cheating on me so we divorced. I never wanted to remarry, but I did, to someone who was saving herself for marriage. I was very honored that she would consider me. But after marrying her she would take our marriage as a joke and always threaten divorce every time she got mad. there were lot's of problems that I still am facing because of the simple fact that she never grew up relationship wise. Things are good now i hope because I am trying to be a good example to her. But I really believe now that People need to experience things to mentally grow up. I look back at when I was first married and I made big deals about nothing just as my current wife does. I tell her all the time "why are we arguing about this? it will not make our marriage better" I know words will not help until someone has the experiences that help them. Not everything should be about sex, but it's human nature and helps you grow.

Sorry for the long story.

Lust is just part of human nature, takes a lot more to 'control'.