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| Posted by hli_xyooj - 12-23-2008 01:03 AM |
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i think its more romantic if you save it for your first night of marriage. however, it depends on the two person who is going to perform it. as for me i might as well wait, but guys cant wait long!! some might ditch you after 3 days of waiting!!
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| Posted by junet - 12-22-2008 10:05 PM |
(Haven't approve of that, I think because I'm a Christian and even if not I still won't, cause I wanted to be unblemished/virgin when I faced the Lord during my marriage )
Totally agree!!!
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| Posted by sellene_03 - 12-16-2008 05:18 PM |
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if I’m going to based my opinion on my religion or tradition/custom, I’d say that I’m against it.. But, with what I see in reality, it seems that there's nothing wrong with it, it just depends on the person's point of view and how he/she handle the responsibility that comes with it.. So, if you can control it, then its good. if not, just stay safe..
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| Posted by getawayfrom - 12-11-2008 05:17 PM |
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i never had sex before marriage but now that i'm married i sometime think i should have when i was single. sometime i wonder how it feels to be with different guys instead of sticking to one guy all through your life.
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| Posted by saminefeli - 11-06-2008 03:04 AM |
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im 29 years old unmarried and i ve had sex since i was 16. i dont think its bad or am i ashemed of it. but you should always use a condom no matter what
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| Posted by likey-29 - 10-20-2008 11:05 AM |
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i think it depends on your age if youre old enough to think what is right and wrong..and ofcoures all woman dream and wanted to wait untill after their marriage,but being realistic nowadays its hard to wait till that time will come,pls.dont get me wrong but i guess its true in my opinion
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| Posted by x.T.e.A.r.X.s - 10-01-2008 11:16 AM |
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big no xD i'm sorry to those who believe pre marital sex is fine.. but i am totally against it. i mean i won't start yelling and cursing and think bad things of people who already had sex, but i am still against it. even if i wasn't because of my religion, i would still be against it... i believe that sex is for after marriage with the special person you truly love. not for fun, etc.
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| Posted by gorg2510 - 09-26-2008 02:12 AM |
TN1 Wrote:what is your opinion about this?
depend on what age! but sex before marriage is still advisable! if one can control his/her emotions until he/she gets married, if not? be responsible to whatever outcome your "rush" might lead you to
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| Posted by trubree - 09-21-2008 01:00 PM |
of course having your first experience with the one you
you love and will spend the rest of your life with, doesnt sound
so bad.. actually it sounds really romantic and its always a good thing.
But the reason why i have nothing against premarital sex is because
i guess i think its better to experiment before you are married
so that afterwards you dont "wonder"
about any other person.
because if you start "wondering" what other sexual experiences "mightve"
been like, theres always a posibity of the spouse commiting
adultery.
im not saying it always happens, but it does happen sometimes.
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| Posted by CosmoQueen - 09-20-2008 06:15 PM |
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Well I really think to each his own. Everybody has their own views and opinions on this subject. I think it just depends on the person. Personally I think you should be mature enough to handle something like that, and not take it lightly. And also I do think it's better to date someone for like 6 months to a year so that you can really know that you're in love and that it's a real relationship. Also, it's good to see if someone will wait for you because if they don't value your worth enough to wait then they're not worth your time. And you'll be very happy that you didn't make the mistake of going to far with them.
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