Having a friends with benefits?

[takeshi]

Is having a friends with benefits something that you would consider doing or have done in the past? What do you think about it? What ended up happening?

As for me, this has never happened before so I'm very curious.

[Lance]

Alas your admin has had a friends with benefits that lasted only a short while (2 weeks). Overall I think it wasn't the best idea because later on she told me that she had feelings for me and I had absolutely no feelings for her at all. So proceed with caution but I suggest against it.

[WinterFrost]

Never had one before, I am an innocent one! I don't know if I'm mature enough for one right now, but maybe in the future.

[Music4urSoul]

I've never had one but what I've heard is that it's pretty much a no-no. Meaning that eventually someone will like someone when the other doesnt...it's gets complicated too when you're friends with a person. so yea, from what I've seen from my friends I would go against it tooo.

[ellechar7]

this is something i would advise against. i have many friends who went into this thinking they can get the best of both worlds, but someone always ends up being hurt. it's not just the girls who get hurt by this, but some guys as well. even though this seems to be happening a lot lately a good ol' fashion relationship is still the best way to go. like the saying goes, "you can't have your cake and eat it too"!

[wuntun]

for most people they can't seperate the physical stuff with their emotional feelings which means they definitely should not do friends with benefits.

[markcheeze]

get it if you can. don't if you can't.

[1988Ace]

I've never had friends with benefits and don't plan on either

[AcesGirl]

(03-10-2009 11:30 AM)takeshi Wrote:  Is having a friends with benefits something that you would consider doing or have done in the past? What do you think about it? What ended up happening?

As for me, this has never happened before so I'm very curious.

Freinds with benefits is something I'll never do especially when Ace is the only one for me(Lol if things don't work out which is almost impossible since again he possess little or no characteristics of a typical guy I refuse to be with anyone else).Its just another word for booty call and hopefully women will realize the guy their doing that with is most likely using you