i totally prefer older guys, well at my age at least, because im still young, guys that are younger then me are like very immature and well older guys are more attractive, my boyfriend is one year older and although he is also immature he gives me this protective feel which i don't believe younger guys can give me

I think why women tend to go for older guys is because of society. They tend to make men the leading role because they are the "provider" and "protector."

But I've dated a guy younger than me. It wasnt all that bad. It was actually pretty fun.

Imfx:
You should just hang out and be friends with her first. Maybe, just maybe, she feels the same way about you.

If you are still in your teens or studying.. I think age matters a lot!

But if you reach the age of 20 and up.. I don't think it would really be that important.. so you fell for a guy whose younger than you.. big deal!

what matters is how you see each other or if you compliment each other.. age is just a number.. it's the character that counts!

This post was last modified: 03-04-2007 02:45 PM by purpleprincess.

in my opinion, i dont usually go for younger guys, and find it a little less attractive when a guy is younger. i really do think it has to do with the maturity level, and how people say, girls mature faster. not saying thats ALWAYS true, but it can be a factor in things like this.
i think since i like to act child-ish/the youngest because i am the youngest in my family, im used to being with people who act a little more mature than or can act more mature at times? and still act like a child with me at times?.... i dunno where im going with this now >_<"

but yeah, my teacher tells me age matters more now, because of like school gossip, and stuff like that... and also pedophiles, and things like that too.
but once we get older, i guess it wont matter...
in high school, i guess we are just too naive about it? (again not saying in ALL cases... just generally) >_<"

Guys that are around 1 or 2 years younger I don't mind, anything higher than that... it's wrong for me... lol. Usually I like guys around my age...

While I like guys my age and older, everytime I see a hottie I find out he's 2-10 years younger than me. What's up with that?! lol!

age is just a number to prove you're old enough to smoke and drink. ah ahahhaha! go give her some roses on a random day and if she doesn't like it ..at least she'll notice you (: if you really like the girl do watever it takes. good luckkkk

hmmm...... it's a matter of timing....at 23 I had a 32yr old G/F and in reality alot of people look at us and go wtf....but it's all a matter of how your personalities measure up.... I am mature in some ways and quite immature in otherways similar to the g/f yet as our levels of matuiraty differ it balances out and we do not feel the age cos sometimes i think she is a little grl yet at times she would think the same of me.... and it works. I am a person who used to never look at any grl older then me as i like them younger and i was her first younger b/f ...it's all a matter of timing and compatability not age. If one worries about age it's like worrying about one's height or wealth..... don't bother she's probably a waste of time....

hmmm...... it's a matter of timing....at 23 I had a 32yr old G/F and in reality alot of people look at us and go wtf....but it's all a matter of how your personalities measure up.... I am mature in some ways and quite immature in otherways similar to the g/f yet as our levels of matuiraty differ it balances out and we do not feel the age cos sometimes i think she is a little grl yet at times she would think the same of me.... and it works. I am a person who used to never look at any grl older then me as i like them younger and i was her first younger b/f ...it's all a matter of timing and compatability not age. If one worries about age it's like worrying about one's height or wealth..... don't bother she's probably a waste of time....

older guys are definitely better in my eyes...
but younger guys can be cute..
depends how much younger tho...
if its like a few months to a year..its not that bad...
but if its like a 4 year difference..thats iffy