wow, this is such a nice article, hehe, i hope it is that easy as easy on how i read it, i just wonder why do we (boys) always have such feelings and stuff, do girls also feel the same even for sometime? hehe, this is because i watch a lot of things related to this, and it is funny

nice..ill try it

I will say..u MUST AT LEAST TRY, because if u nv try ur success % is ZERO, and DON REGRET after u miss the chance n cursing urselves, even if u fail to approach her, at least u learn something from the experience. N with more tries, u will get use to it, it will be just like approaching friends.

I agree with a lot of what you said. There are just two things that bother me a little. Number one being the "eye contact" and number two being "positive body language". I agree with what some of the other people where saying about eye contact, too much of it will just freak me out. When you first meet someone it's better to just stay relaxed. There are other ways to show people your listening then staring them down. I get uncomfortable when ANYONE keeps eye contact for too long let alone when it's some guy who's trying to pick me up.

As for the body language, I think it's better to once again, try and stay relaxed. If someone comes walking toward me with their shoulders back and their chest pressed out I would think they were cocky. I wouldn't want someone who was hunching over but at the same time I don't want someone who thinks I'm going to fall apart at every word they say.

I think the best thing on your list is the reminder to smile. Nothing sets more girls at ease then a sincere smile.

smurfqueen Wrote:I agree with a lot of what you said. There are just two things that bother me a little. Number one being the "eye contact" and number two being "positive body language". I agree with what some of the other people where saying about eye contact, too much of it will just freak me out. When you first meet someone it's better to just stay relaxed. There are other ways to show people your listening then staring them down. I get uncomfortable when ANYONE keeps eye contact for too long let alone when it's some guy who's trying to pick me up.

As for the body language, I think it's better to once again, try and stay relaxed. If someone comes walking toward me with their shoulders back and their chest pressed out I would think they were cocky. I wouldn't want someone who was hunching over but at the same time I don't want someone who thinks I'm going to fall apart at every word they say.

I think the best thing on your list is the reminder to smile. Nothing sets more girls at ease then a sincere smile.

Nice 1 there ^^ at least it is from some lady point of view here ^^ sometime i feel that if u prepare too much to approach a ger u will most likely mess up..haha..like what to say n what not to say, like preparing a DOs n DONs list, n like what u say just relax, n be truthful, u doesn't have to think of all those fancy pickup line =)

Armed with the 10 pointers, its a sure to score. But then, it still takes quite a huge bit of courage to put it into practice.

your advices were great...... great technique !!!!

5. Not too fast.
I'm not sure about that tip because for me as a woman I wanted everything to be natural just go with the flow if you are interested then approach me & if there's chemistry & w/ your confidence then we'll go ahead & set the next date (there needs to be chemistry between them. If a man can show his confidence, then this is one of the most attractive things that women want to be. To be confidence is totally different from arrogance, on the other hand.)

Rondillo Wrote:

fake_innocent Wrote:6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.

Have you guys ever wondered how to keep eye contact without looking like a weirdo? Like do you have trouble just getting your two eyes to connect to hers? Because if you stare at one of her eyes (or even worse, look at both her eyes one by one, back and forth ) Well here's a tip I learned from a dating tips site that someone suggested long ago...

When trying to have a normal eyes-connecting look, you should look at the bridge of her knows in-between her eyes! Really! It looks as if you are looking at her two eyes!

This could also give those guys who are a bit low on confidence and have a hard time looking at a girls eyes before turning away and blushing. Or if the girl is a bit scary... this would make it seem like you're not afraid to look her in the eyes! hehe... sooner or later, if you practice this enough, you'd actually be looking at her eyes very casually and normally without having to focus on her nose bridge!

if you are not that confident dont look at her eyes instead look at her nose it will look like you are staring at her yeyes

No no not at her nose... look a little higher, between the eyes... that's the spot to make it look like you're making eye contact. Looking at her nose will make it seem like you are looking at her... nose.

It's a LOVE STORY, baby, just say YES!