Close to married male friends.

[tarana]

It is wrong that a single woman is getting close to her married male friends? People think they have an affair… but in truth they are best of friend… do she need to explain or just ignore it.

[TN1]

i dont see anything wrong about it. as long as she and her male married friends dont do something wrong, then there's no problem about it. sometimes people are just making fuss of what they see. just ignore them, theyre the ones whose having problem not her

[tarana]

Yup, that what i told her... and also the person who are making fuss are the one who are having an affair.

[Rondillo]

The most important thing for the husband and wife is trust. If they both trust each other, then there should be no problem.

[carmen]

Nothing wrong. There shouldn't be at least. Friends are friends, and a fine line should be able to be drawn. Like Ron said, the couple should trust one another.

But likewise. Make sure you're still seeing it as a friendship, and nothing more.

[RoShbob]

This is an issue only someone married could understand or in my case once married. The married male friend should explain to the single friend the position he is in. Also it may help if the single friend is friends with the wife as well so that there are no misunderstandings.

[knzircon9]

It's good to have friends outside of a relationship. Honestly, as much as I would love my partner, I wouldn't want to be stuck with him 24/7 . Giving each other some space to be by ourselves or with others cultivates personal growth. So, I think it is fine that a single woman/male is close to a married/partnered woman/male. If there is trust, respect, and communication within the relationship, then a situation like this would not matter. Now, if a problem does arise, then the woman/man would have to think about whether being in the relationship/getting married was the right thing to do. If the man/woman cannot even trust his/her partner, why did he/she get married in the first place, right? Sure, humans are prone to jealousy or fear losing the partner to another person. But to an extreme level, the man/woman can jeopardize the relationship especially if there is no evidence that something is amiss. Now, if the man/woman fears losing his/her partner to another person, then he/she would have to ask himself/herself what would the reason be for this happening: relationship has been sour do to whatever (i.e. inattentiveness, too many demands, control issues, previous dishonesty, rumors, finance, dull sex or lack there of, loss of initial passion, no spontaneity, stress, etc.), married a player even though instincts told him/her not to at the get-go and thinking that the player could be changed, and/or past experiences of bad relationships.

[VIERAN]

its nothing wrong actually as long as both party knows their position and the wife knows it to, so as to prevent mis understanding.

[tarana]

no problem with the wife.... the problem is the people around them... they like to make a story and never think what they (guy and girl) feel.