im yuese, (not my real name) a 4th year college by now taking up accountancy, i never had a relationship before, not because i cant find but i just want to tell that d*mn words to only one person, lets call her Seth, its not her real name anyway. i maybe not the best man in school but i'm good. i look good my attitudes are good..

about seth, weve been friends for so long.. but when i told her my feelings i hid for years, she just go away and forget even our friendship. she told me to stop and we'll still be friends, but i guess i can't do so...

i and her were almost "one", i actually feel her as me. but she doesnt make any consideration for me. i truly love her, i could give everything to her..even give my life for her, anyone's, for here.. HEY SETH!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!

now here is my best friend jaycee.. i noticed he is been always around her a month after my friendship with seth collapsed. i almost did not noticed and thought what could happen to them.

and now, two of my best friends were facing against me.. i always tries to get them back but the two doesnt lend their symphaty on me. im soo sad i know their relationship will bring them to nowhere, the girl is not serious on him and the boy just go with the girl without any compell.

yuese, they were not your true friends in the first place. Forget about being friends with them. For a woman to stick up and say "We can't be friend because you like me". I find that absurd because I have had my relationship broken with my exs' but in the end we still talk and stayed as friends.

That woman sure doesn't have a heart. She has no sympathy whatsoever about your feeling. You shouldn't let that get to you because she would be happy to know you feeling sad about this. Why waste your time on this one girl, when at the end she played you like a fool. Like the quote says, "There plenty of fish in the sea", you will eventually find one better than her. Look to the bright side of thing. Prove to her and yourself that you can find a better girl. Let her know what she is missing out.

Feeling heart broken won't mend anything. You got to stick to your guns and work for it. You'll never know what you will get in return till you try. Hopefully, the outcomes turns out good for you. Best of luck to you!

I would like to say again: Dang lilxjoanna! You beat me again! And you're pretty good with the advice too! I keep finding myself just repeating what you say! But it's good for the listener I guess since now he has two opinions that agree on the same thing.

So yuese. I agree with lilxjoanna. You should try to forget about her. I know its going to be really hard. I just watched Il Mare yesterday and one of the quotes were:

"It's not the fact that he/she doesn't love you that hurts the most, it's that you still love him/her"

I'm sorry it might be difficult to get over this girl. I don't know if you ever will... seeing how much you felt for her, but I know for a fact that the sun will rise again tomorrow. Also, yes go fishing and hopefully you'll land a mermaid! Sooner or later, you'll find out that what you felt for this girl will disappear!

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rofl... you two (lilxjoanna and Rondillo) are hilarious... yuese's broken hearted and you both makes me laugh... lol...

anyways... if Rondillo is quoting Il Mare, I'll go lighter and quote something from Corner with Love... "... and understand that I didn't lose him, but that he lost you instead. He lost the beautiful me, the irreplaceable me who loved him deeply"

... in your case, you didn't lose her, she lost you... so the best thing for you to do is go forward, forget her with a big smile and make her regret that she lost something... she lost your love, she lost you... not the other way around

Rondillo Wrote:I would like to say again: Dang lilxjoanna! You beat me again! And you're pretty good with the advice too! I keep finding myself just repeating what you say! But it's good for the listener I guess since now he has two opinions that agree on the same thing.

Hehe Rondillo, I tend to beat you to these posts lol...At first, I tend to wait a couple days, but no one bothered answering so I did the deed.
I must agree when you have two people point of view, it does give the person more options to choose on how to handle whatever the situation. Hopefully our suggestion are good ones.

4jpz Wrote:rofl... you two (lilxjoanna and Rondillo) are hilarious... yuese's broken hearted and you both makes me laugh... lol...

LOL! What can I say...we like to play fight haha
Seem like we both helped jump start your day with a big smile

I'll beat you to one first some day But for now... Hadouken! (Video game geek moment lol)

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Rondillo Wrote:I'll beat you to one first some day But for now... Hadouken! (Video game geek moment lol)

Hadouken! The the saying Ryu & Ken would say ..lol.. Good old memories when I used to play it a lot with my cousins.

Thanks everyone for the advice, i really appreciate those.. although i am doing this so long for me (seven months) for moving on... on a relationship that never even made an existence.. i cant really make it.,

there is my one more best friend who always been wishing to be my partner, but i really cannot take her(Seth) away from my heart... i wish it's just for now.. ..so i didnt make a consideration for this friend of mine, for i know it will be just a ruin for us two.. i admire her for her acceptance for my decission that i cant do for seths.. I and seth still meets at school.. and it really hurts seeing her without me and i really get near-insane whenever i realize that she is near.. will she ever be as happy as i wanted her to be when she's in me... i wish so, i must say, im happy for you guys...

thanks for your compassion fellows

just try in moving on, you just say it for now but definitely you'll forgot that feelings and im sure you'll find a better one for you. just pray, God will guide you the right way.

Don't worry man! It'll be okay! And we got your back if you need any more advice and stuff!

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