yuese,
i remember i had a similar situation as yours when i was in high school...
i was crazy about this girl (we were also good friends) and one day i confessed my feelings to her. She told me that she didn't want to get involved any more seriously than just friends, but that she cared deeply for me. i respected that decision and we remained friends (although my feelings never changed).
A few months later she was dating a close friend of mine (or so i thought) and slowly the distance between us grew greater. I couldn't except the fact that she didn't want anything more to do with me than just friends, I beat myself up inside thinking i was to blame for her not wanting to be with me. I would feel so crazy waiting by the phone just for her to call, and every chance i had to see her i would be there.
You mentioned another friend that took interest in you, do you think she cares for you as much as you care for "seth" ?
From my experience i would suggest that you don't get involved in another relationship until you feel confident in yourself that you have let go of "seth".

The important thing to know is that telling her was the right thing to do, it shows your sincerity and making that step was important even though now you feel rejected.
Don't worry time will heal all, and this will make you a stronger person.
focus on other things that are important in your life right now, and move "seth" completely out of your mind.
You will make it through and i hope one day you find the girl of your dreams.
good luck to you
keep us posted

I can feel the pains of a broken heart. I have also faced such teasing situation in my life.It is always very easy to say ,forget her, she was not really a true girl for you .It is really very difficult to forget the girl you loved.Any way you have to do this ,there is no other choice left for you.Life has to go on.

it,s ok... may be she not the best for u.. u will never know what will happen in future if u still with she. the most important is, u must wake up, refresh ur life, believe to the GOD faith.. everythng will be ok it,s better if u open ur heart to ISLAM.. u will finf all the answer for ur queston in this religion

Yuese, it seems you were the victim of one sided love and two very bad “friends”. Take this as a lesson in love that will make you a better man for your true love. Forgive my bluntness but those two individuals are piss poor human beings that will get what they deserve one day. If you are a good person like you say, don’t worry someone will see those wonderful qualities in you and treat you the way a woman should with dignity, respect and love. Heart ache is just a dull pain, but don’t worry it won’t last forever just until you realize you deserve better than the betrayal of two back stabbing vultures.

you can't be friends because she like someone else.. if she will entertain your feelings she might lose that someone else that's why she chose to leave you.

yuese Wrote:Thanks everyone for the advice, i really appreciate those.. although i am doing this so long for me (seven months) for moving on... on a relationship that never even made an existence.. i cant really make it.,

there is my one more best friend who always been wishing to be my partner, but i really cannot take her(Seth) away from my heart... i wish it's just for now.. ..so i didnt make a consideration for this friend of mine, for i know it will be just a ruin for us two.. i admire her for her acceptance for my decission that i cant do for seths.. I and seth still meets at school.. and it really hurts seeing her without me and i really get near-insane whenever i realize that she is near.. will she ever be as happy as i wanted her to be when she's in me... i wish so, i must say, im happy for you guys...

thanks for your compassion fellows

Ok you just answered your question here. Don't be like the one you lost and not give this other girl a chance. As bad as it sounds, the best way to get over someone is to be with someone else. Believe me all those feelings you had for her about giving her everything, I have felt it too and wondering why someone could not let me show her. But you have someone wanting to show you that she will give you everything and treat you right. give her a chance and you will see how the first girl will slowly slip away and you will be happy again.

yuese Wrote:im yuese, (not my real name) a 4th year college by now taking up accountancy, i never had a relationship before, not because i cant find but i just want to tell that d*mn words to only one person, lets call her Seth, its not her real name anyway. i maybe not the best man in school but i'm good. i look good my attitudes are good..

about seth, weve been friends for so long.. but when i told her my feelings i hid for years, she just go away and forget even our friendship. she told me to stop and we'll still be friends, but i guess i can't do so...

i and her were almost "one", i actually feel her as me. but she doesnt make any consideration for me. i truly love her, i could give everything to her..even give my life for her, anyone's, for here.. HEY SETH!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!

now here is my best friend jaycee.. i noticed he is been always around her a month after my friendship with seth collapsed. i almost did not noticed and thought what could happen to them.

and now, two of my best friends were facing against me.. i always tries to get them back but the two doesnt lend their symphaty on me. im soo sad i know their relationship will bring them to nowhere, the girl is not serious on him and the boy just go with the girl without any compell.

Well..mine is different a bit..I fall in love with my best friend's bf.I know thats impossible but i cant control myself 2 let him go..I juz cant stop thinking of him..At first,I know the guy earlier than my friend.I'm not dare 2 tell him that i like him.Since my best friend added in our 'friendship',he starts 2 asking me bout her personal thinks..Although i refuse in my heart..but at last i tell him too...After few weeks,my best friend tell me that they get together...my heart break into pieces after i heard what she says....omg..