its generally true that asians tend to date other asians, however thats just the general case; for me personally i like asians and white girls =p

I would like to date an asian guy (am black lol) Japanese to be specific, but I dont know...totally agree that it is up to the person though. I mean its what you are into not what your 'race' is into that should be important right?

(10-29-2008 05:05 AM)trubree Wrote:  What do you guys think about it...

i know alot of you might say "as long as their is love in the
relationship race shouldnt matter" or anything close to that ...

But asians do seem to prefer dating only asians and if not,
then they will date white people ...
or at least that is what is most commonly seen now-a-days..

why do you think this is??

what race do you guys see yourselves dating other than asian??

i've just been curious about this for some time.

I am willing to date any people: asians, europeans..etc as long there is chemistry.
It's true that i like very much koreans, not because of the dramas, but i saw some koreans boys in my country and in Budapest-Hungary that take your breath. Very beautiful. But answering to your question: any race is good as long there is attraction, friendship, love...etc etc...

Depends on what the purpose is for...

(04-06-2009 11:05 AM)jkim Wrote:  Depends on what the purpose is for...

So if its just for dating you dont mind but marriage you do? then what do you do when you fall for someone you planned on 'simply dating'?

I personally have only dated white girls. and wasn't too attracted to asian girls untill recently. now I'd love to date and asian girl (I'm filipino myself) but I'm attracted to any girl that looks good. I wouldnt care which race or nationality they are, beautiful girls come from every part of the globe.

I think that any culture is more or less drawn to it's own kind where you understand the norms and traditions. Also depending on where you live you may not be exposed to other cultures enough to give you an opportunity to meet someone outside your group. that being said, if you have patience and understanding toward your partner and they have it in return it really shouldn't matter where they are from or how different their culture is. I, for example am an American of Italian descent. I was blessed to meet a filipina a few years ago. She is now my wife and I couldn't be happier. Interracial relations work fine if each is honest and considerate and not looking at their partner as some exotic trophy.

My two cents -

Maloicchio

Most people seem to think that, now a days, asian girls are into just white guys. This has been further perpetuated by..white guys. Arrogance breeds bullshit. The truth is, asians stick with asians, statistically, more than any other race, with the exception of native american and alaskan eskimos.

That aside, I'd say that the best thing is to stick with your own race. It's my personal opinion that the cultural differences are too numerous. Reminds me of a post that I've seen on here. It listed the reasons asian girls are into the little preppies. One stated that they're more socially aware. I'd have to disagree. There is no well defined system of social standing the U.S. It's a blur. The only defining social system I've noticed is the same system that applies to every race of every country. Those who believe themselves in higher standing are pretentious pricks. The next I saw was more balls. We must be living in two completely different areas. Not where I'm from, and I'm in the military.

I'm going on a tangent though. The point is, it is hurtful to each race. White women seem to develop this anger towards Asian women over it. They'll claim that it's because asian women are so subservient, of course a white guy would like a girl who shuts the hell up and does what she's told. Asian guys will just think you're some whore who sold herself to the foreigners. At least, the asian guys I know. I'm an asian guy who loves asian girls. Dating one in fact. Personally, that's the way it should be. Call it racism, prejudice, or just predisposed to my own people.

~Korean Pride~ 1

I am an african american woman, and I love asian men, personally I've never dated one because of the area I live in, which is 99 % black, but I don't see a problem dating outside your race, the cultural differences is bull because if you love that person then those differences can be worked out, I dated a german guy, and talk about differences, but we made it work for 3 yrs, so I say if there's love, and mutual respect for one another, go for it.

Rondillo, we are cut from the same cloth . I highly perfered white women over asian women but now I like asian girls better than white girls. Probably cause of all the drama I've watched. I've been living in Canada for like.. 14 years and my grandparents told me to marry a asian girl but for the past 10 years iv only dated white (cause the majority race is white and asian) but now i seem to only fancy asian girls -_- god damn drama/movie