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Women: 10 Reasons He Didn't Call You
Written by Steven Lin on March 9, 2008
He might have a girlfriend/wife
Face it. Some guys are players and they hide their lives.
Remedy: If you're more desirable than the girlfriend, he will still choose you. But if he does have a girlfriend you should probably steer clear of
this type of man anyways.
Circumstances exist that he doesn't want to break
If he feels a relationship could ruin a job or a friendship, he might not want to get involved.
Remedy: If you work with him, you probably ought to stay clear of him. A relationship in the work place can be stressful. If you are already somewhat
friends with him before you guys met, he may not be willing to risk the friendship. In this case you need to make it clear that you want to escalate. Kissing
him is one of the ways you can show this. Asking to go back to his place is another way. Remember that you will only want to progress to kissing or sex if
you guys have already connected. Don't do this on a first date or even a second date. If he's interested enough to ask you on a third date, you should seal
the deal then. Around the third date is usually when a guy will think to himself whether he wants to keep you around for date #4 so he can progress the
relationship further, or if he feels that you have not connected and will stop calling.
For shallow reasons
Meaning there was some way that you looked or smelled that turned him off.
Remedy: Make sure you are CLEAN and wearing perfume. Men love to smell that stuff. It's also a huge turn off if you eat onions or something that can
make your breath smell. Eating mints and chewing gum will also sign to him that you are interested in escalating the physical contact. Also having good
smelling feet is necessary too, especially if you plan on going to his house later.
If you made it into his bedroom that night perhaps he found it appalling that you have something gross in your nether regions? I've actually personally had
that experience. Needless to say, I didn't call back.
He played you
Easy, he was just playing the phone number game and you were one of his targets.
Remedy: Try to figure out if he's genuine or if he's just trying to feel better about himself by getting your phone number. Avoid the men in clubs who
smooth talk and seduce you like they've been doing it their whole lives. Truth is, they probably do this several times per week and you are just another
conquest. As a general rule, don't let him get too far with you until you really get to know him.
He just wants to be friends
Because he thinks of you as just a friend, he is not going to call you up every single weekend. He's going to hang out with his buddies and other women.
Remedy: If you are on his friend's ladder you can be saved. Men will fall in and out of love with women at the drop of a dime so he can fall in love
with you. If you are looking to make him a long term relationship then you CAN hang out with him as friends first. Then demonstrate to him that you also have
other men in your life. Don't be clingy. After a while, you can give him indicators that you want him as more than just a friend. Remember, YOU will have to
initiate it because frankly, most men are too scared to initiate if they feel you are only a friend.
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