First, let me introduce myself. My name is Raizo, and I’m a 26 year old Half-Japanese college student getting my masters degree. I’m not a pick-up-artist or a dating coach, although I’ve learned from them in the past. The only thing I can tell you is that in college I had sex with over 70 different girls of ALL races. This is my first article for Amped Asia, and I hope it helps you. Thank you, and I would appreciate feedback!
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College freshmen are about to enter classes and it is time to party like a rockstar. But contrary to popular belief, college is not a walk in the park for guys trying to get laid. Yes, it’s probably 100x easier than in High School, but if you’re not smart about it then you might end up alone for all four years.
So here’s my quick (and pretty lengthy) guide to getting laid in college. I’m going to start with freshman year, but if you’re already past that year just follow my guide as if you were still a freshman.
If your #1 priority IN college is to get laid, then go to a liberal arts college. About 95% of the men here are gay, and the women are EXTREMELY horny because of that. It makes your job 10x easier. It’s not too late to transfer if you’re interested in the arts.
Before college starts you want to make sure your game is already decent. Go out to the 18+ clubs, go to parties, hit on girls, and gain a level of skill before you start getting into college. This way you’re already a social butterfly and ready to mingle. Remember that this is the best time to experiment with game and other parts of your life. You can make a bunch of mistakes and no one will know how creepy you were at the club the other night when they meet you at freshmen orientation. Go all out, go crazy, and learn some GAME. My favorite dating programs are Simple Pickup, Real Social Dynamics, and Love Systems, so check those guys out if you need a structured learning environment.
Take care of your body as well. Go to the gym. If you’re overweight, lose as much as you can. If you’re of average build, try to improve your body as much as you can. Not only will this help with the ladies, but it will help with your own self-esteem as well. Bodybuilding.com is an amazing free resource so use it.
Get a cool haircut and wear stylish clothes. This is a MUST. If you don’t have a cool haircut then you’re doomed to fail as an Asian guy. If you look at the Asian dudes that are getting laid, almost every single one of them has a trendy haircut. Wear clothes that fit. Get a new wardrobe if you have to. This guide won’t be teaching you about style, so you’ll have to Google it yourself and figure it out.
The Easy Way to Get Tons of College Girls
Join either a fraternity or a bunch of social groups. Every big college should have a bunch of these, and even small colleges should have social groups. If you’re a junior it might be too late to rush for a frat, but find and join social groups that have a lot of cute girls.
The first few weeks is all about making close friends. BOTH Guys and girls. Friendzone a lot of women. Yeah I know that’s counter-intuitive, but trust me because you want a lot of female friends this first year. Don’t get into a relationship as that will kill your chances of getting multiple women throughout the year (unless you’re a douchebag who cheats). Of course, if you would rather have a girlfriend, that’s understandable since everyone wants something different, but this is a guide about getting as much pussy as possible, and getting a girlfriend freshmen year is not the best idea.
Make friends with a lot of guys as well. Try to hone in on a few really cool upperclassmen guys. These guys will not only mentor you, but they already know about college game and will help speed up your learning curve by showing you where the parties are. Find guys that are well connected, again the frat helps with this a lot since you’ve now got access to a bunch of cool dudes who have a lot of connections.
Bring value to these guys. It can be as simple as paying for their meal or bringing beer to a get-together. Or you can introduce them to hot freshmen girls you’ve met. But other than that, be a genuine, real person and it will help you a lot. Hanging out in a group is okay, but it’s important to meet guys one on one as well. As gay as this is going to sound, the one-on-one time is what creates a true friendship bond. Get to know them. Ask them what their craziest story was in college. Every meal you should be meeting with a dude or a girl. Mutual activities are important so plan things like poker nights, video game nights, dinners, drinks, sporting events, and more. This will help you solidify relationships with cool people.
The first few weeks are the absolute best time to establish your social circle because the new freshmen are dying to meet new people. Most of the time, the people you meet in these first weeks will be people you’ll know throughout your college life.
Once people’s social circles are established and classes have started, it’s MUCH harder to make friends because people tend to stick with the same groups. They will prioritize the people they already know over new people in their lives. There are exceptions to this of course. But make sure you take advantage of the first few weeks (and pretty much your whole freshman year).
Don’t knock the frats. The frats make it REALLY easy to hook up with girls. For one, the fraternity system was created to essentially make it easier for men to have as much sex as possible. You get placed into a system where you have access to all the hottest women on campus and you’re constantly thrust to interact with women (and usually the sluttiest and the hottest women). Of course, this varies — some unestablished frats will suck, but on my campus even the smaller frats were supplying their men with endless boatloads of pussy. If you’re Asian, the Asian frats help you meet the hottest Asian girls on campus. It’s worth a semester of hazing. TRUST ME. I was in an Asian frat in college, and I hooked up with around 10 different girls from the Asian sororities. It was nuts because I was hooking up with two sisters at the same time and both of them knew and didn’t care. They saw me as the fun guy to hook up with when you’re horny.
One thing you shouldn’t do. PUA-type approaches. That shit is creepy at college campuses. You don’t need to cold approach when you have EASY ways to access women at all times without needing to do it. You have unlimited mixers, classes, parties, and 100s of other ways to meet women. The other ways are much more natural and girls’ bitch shields will be ten times lower.
Something natural you can do is go to your cafeteria every lunch and try to sit with someone else who is sitting alone. Girls actually came up to me a couple times just like this when I was sitting alone. Just say something polite along the lines of “Hey do you mind if I sit with you for lunch? I like meeting new people.” Target other freshmen as they are the easiest girls to meet and are probably the most open.
In class sit next to the hottest girl you can spot. Say hi to her and introduce yourself. Don’t talk about the class, but instead be a little more interesting. One thing I always liked to do was make fun of the teacher in some way (especially in classes where the teacher is inherently “uncool” like if he’s an old geezer who can barely talk, or a foreign teacher who you can barely understand). In the past I’ve said stuff like, “Do you understand this lady because I have no idea how to speak Russian.” Don’t be the typical guy that asks her for homework stuff. Instead, you should notice something about her and make a comment on it. For example, there was once this cool hipster girl I met in class that had a really interesting style. I just told her, “Your style is dope.” This only works if you actually think that her style is pretty dope.
Again, freshmen are the best to talk to because it’s easy to tell her “interesting” tidbits that you’ve discovered about college life. Think about an interesting conversation starter, here’s something I’ve used: “The other day I was at a party and it was freakin’ crazy. There were two people just hooking up in the middle of the room. Not just making out but one guy was fingering the girl… and I was like, whoa… so this is college.” Of course this story won’t work for every girl, but it WILL for the cool ones.
Grab her number or Facebook or Instagram. Sometimes social media is less creepy than the number, so gauge her level of interest. If she’s laughing at everything you say and she’s engaged in conversation, then go for the number. If she’s not super interested, but she’s still friendly then go for the Facebook close.
Go to as many parties as you can and get to know the people who are throwing the parties. Usually it’s not hard to find parties if you’ve made some upperclassmen friends. Plus you can always do the rush parties for frats even if you’re not planning to join a frat. This is where your new female friends come in handy, because now you have girls that you can introduce to upperclassmen and other cool guys. The more guy friends you make and the bigger network you have, the more shit you’re going to be able to do. No offense to the ladies, but girls are notoriously bad at having cool shit to do. Girls don’t want to organize anything more than a slumber party. That’s why it’s so important to have cool guys because guys are the best at throwing parties, having cool get-togethers, and social networking. You eventually want to become THE guy that can throw sweet parties and have awesome get-togethers, and that will come soon.
Overall freshmen year is the year to establish yourself, get acquainted with the people, and to learn about the college life. Your #1 priority this year should be to gain a massive network, maintain a great reputation (especially around girls), and be known as a cool guy to hang around. Unless you’re already a master PUA, you’re probably not calibrated that great which is why I say don’t do PUA stuff in college (especially smaller colleges). If word gets around that you’re using canned openers, your game is over.
Furthermore, easier pussy will come in the following years, so get ready. In the rest of this guide I’ll discuss party game, more easy ways to meet women, and even more.
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