Five Things You Can Learn From Alec Greven

First watch his interview where he spills the beans on his new book entitled “How to Talk to Girls.”

Alec Greven truly is a remarkable little kid that totally understands women. Now if only this kid was Asian, THEN this article would totally be appropriate

for Amped Asia. But still, I thought I would share some of my views on what this kid is preaching. Although his dating tips are worded for the young crowd,

many older people can still gain some insight from his book. Here’s what you can learn from Alec Greven.

He says: Comb your hair and don’t wear sweats
Besides having good hygiene, it’s necessary to also have a look that conveys that you understand how to take care of yourself. How you dress tells a lot
about your personality. Wearing expensive clothes may give a hint to women that you are rich. Wearing sloppy shirts and clothes that don’t fit might convey

that you don’t know how to look good. Guys who get women innately understand how to dress in order to convey confidence.

He Says: Don’t act desperate
A man who has choices in his life is never desperate with the girls that he dates. When he can choose between several different girls who have interested

him, then he becomes the prize. If you show to the opposite sex that you are the prize it makes them start chasing you. This means don’t act desperate. It’s

not attractive when you text a girl 3 or 4 times without her texting you back, or if you leave a ton of voicemails, or if you keep trying to make dates.

He Says: Don’t be hyper
You might think that being hyper is something that’s only for kids. You’d be totally wrong. Adults are sometimes too “hyper,” meaning we get so caught up in

doing our daily routines that we don’t take time to relax. This is crucial because I personally believe everyone needs a little bit of time for meditation and rest. Exhaustion and overworking can make us look worse and make us neglect our dating lives. Take some time to relax, go have some fun at a bar or club, and meet some new ladies in a chill environment.

He Says: Don’t be the class clown
Being a funny guy definitely works with women. But when you’re the “class clown,” that’s where things go haywire. You can’t have a 1-dimensional personality

because women like to know that you can be serious too. It’s good that you’re lighthearted, but women need that emotional connection as well. That’s why you

need to have a dynamic personality.

He Says: Get over her quickly
This is key because the next woman might be right around the corner. If you’re going to be sulking you’re not going to be attractive to women. Get over her

quickly and move on. You might even want to read my tips on getting over someone.

Alec Greven is truly an inspirational kid. I wish I knew what he knew at a young age.

Written by Steven Lin